Hi, I posted in the tank build but I believe I should have posted here. I posted before about my first build. That thread can be found here. I am still a newbie and still have questions.
That didn't turn out so hot. Well in my mind anyway. It did a complete build with a non-reef tank, drilled holes, plumbed plumbing and brought the best equipment I could justify to my co-CEO/CFO aka my husband. I didn't think my tank cycled so I just let the tank sit and was afraid to put in fish. (Turns out it did cycle, I just missed it. I had live sand, live rock, and Bio-Spira.) I thought I still needed to wait the 30 days and well......
With my frustration and crazy grad school internship schedule, I gave up. And sold pretty much everything. So here we are almost 2 years later, grad school done, and my husband wants to try again. He wasn't interested before but now he's trying to be complete steam ahead. I have him watching youtube, reading forums, and he even brought a book. I explained this is a slow hobby.
I've been down this road before and I don't want to repeat my mistakes. He wants to get a Red Sea Max E-170. He wants to start with a basic plug and play. I told him that a plug and play might be nice to start but we will eventually need to make changes. I believe the tank is a bit small, (yes folks I've been paying attention, bigger is better) and I know I will not be minimally happy without the sump. I'm reaching out to you guys (and gals) for opinions. He's nervous about a larger tank due to weight. I told him if our floor did fine with the 75-gallon tank with water and rock than it should be fine again. But I don't want to tackle plumbing again. I'll crawl into a ball and cry. Well maybe I won't. I did learn a bit last time.
Is it worth it to do the Red Sea Max or would it still be beneficial to just buy a larger reef ready tank with the plumbing kit? Anybody in this hobby with their spouse? Any advice out there or suggestion that I may need or that you think I need to pass on? I don't want to be so fast this time. I know I don't need the best and most expensive equipment to start a tank. I'd like this hobby to be a nice couple-bonding activity, especially since this time he can learn for himself that yes, we really do need to spend the money because we NEEED it.
That didn't turn out so hot. Well in my mind anyway. It did a complete build with a non-reef tank, drilled holes, plumbed plumbing and brought the best equipment I could justify to my co-CEO/CFO aka my husband. I didn't think my tank cycled so I just let the tank sit and was afraid to put in fish. (Turns out it did cycle, I just missed it. I had live sand, live rock, and Bio-Spira.) I thought I still needed to wait the 30 days and well......
With my frustration and crazy grad school internship schedule, I gave up. And sold pretty much everything. So here we are almost 2 years later, grad school done, and my husband wants to try again. He wasn't interested before but now he's trying to be complete steam ahead. I have him watching youtube, reading forums, and he even brought a book. I explained this is a slow hobby.
I've been down this road before and I don't want to repeat my mistakes. He wants to get a Red Sea Max E-170. He wants to start with a basic plug and play. I told him that a plug and play might be nice to start but we will eventually need to make changes. I believe the tank is a bit small, (yes folks I've been paying attention, bigger is better) and I know I will not be minimally happy without the sump. I'm reaching out to you guys (and gals) for opinions. He's nervous about a larger tank due to weight. I told him if our floor did fine with the 75-gallon tank with water and rock than it should be fine again. But I don't want to tackle plumbing again. I'll crawl into a ball and cry. Well maybe I won't. I did learn a bit last time.
Is it worth it to do the Red Sea Max or would it still be beneficial to just buy a larger reef ready tank with the plumbing kit? Anybody in this hobby with their spouse? Any advice out there or suggestion that I may need or that you think I need to pass on? I don't want to be so fast this time. I know I don't need the best and most expensive equipment to start a tank. I'd like this hobby to be a nice couple-bonding activity, especially since this time he can learn for himself that yes, we really do need to spend the money because we NEEED it.