Your rock is one of the most expensive and vital parts of your reef. It may be safe, but at this point do you want to chance it. If I had a well, I'd test it every way I could ( I cheat, I'm a water plant operator with all the goodies to test water) to see if I could use it. I would be most concerned with metals such as copper and other contaniments in the groundwater. Nitrates would indicate if it is under the influence of surface water. Hardness shouldn't be a problem as we dose calcium, unless there's a lot of manganese in the water (causes black stains). You might be able to get a local water plant to test your water for metals, as we run ph, alkalinity, copper, iron and manganese tests all the time. You should have a nitrate test kit in your arsenal. If it were me, i'd want to know if I could uses my well water for my reef. A buddy has a 120 gal freshwater tank he fills with a garden hose out of his well. Not quite the same, but it would be nice.