"I assume that I can get away with feeding them every 2-3 days"
Yep. Every other day is just about perfect. I tried feeding mine every day and after a couple weeks it started refusing to eat every third day or so.
"I have a 10 gallon glass tank with a divided back for a thermomoter and skimmer will that work or should I wait and build a new tank."
Well, that all depends on how big the shrimp is and how comfortable you are with hearing loud clicking noises as the shrimp bashes the glass. According to Dr. Roy Caldwell, even a large O. Scyllarus (Peacock Mantis) is unlikely to break a glass tank. But it does happen. And heaters and thermometers are definately easy targets for medium to large size mantis.
Personally, I wouldn't put anything but a 1 or 2 inch mantis in a 10 gallon AGA. The standard 10 gallon has 1/8" thick glass. That's pretty darn thin. When I first got my mantis I put it in my 29 gallon refugium, which had 3/8" thick glass. After watching and hearing her smash the glass the first day I was filled with dread. It was LOUD! And that tank was plumbed to my reef. And yes, the mantis did break the thermometer in that tank. The reports of fully grown mantis having a strike equivalent to a .22 caliber bullet are not urban legends.
You could always look around for cheap tank similar in size to the 10 gallon and see if it has thicker glass. Try a 15 high or 20 high. The 15 high has the same footprint, so if you already have the divider you could rip out the silicone and put it in the 15 high. Check to see if the glass is thicker than 1/8" though. If you get a bigger tank you could also keep a couple fast moving fish with the mantis (I have a blue damsel in my tank).
You could also buy one of the cheap Eclipse 6 or 12 tanks, although you will still have to seperate the heater.
You mentioned wanting to keep an eel with the mantis. If you have money to spend you could get a bigger acrylic aquarium and divide a section of it off for the mantis and put the eel on the other side.
Good job on planning to separate the heater and thermometer from the main tank.
"You seem to be the local expert on Mantis"
Not sure about that. Just seem to have a lot of time on my hands.
