are you guys using tongs or tweezers, etc., to feed the anemone the larger chunks of food? also, when feeding cyclops or other small foods, how can you tell if the anemone is actually getting it? do you see the clyopeeze sticking to the tentacles? i only ask because i regularly feed my tank cyclopeeze, but never thought to look and see if my GBTA was 'eating' any, i just always figured the food was too small.