Your lights are compact flourescents, aka power compacts.
We use the term T-5's for the single bulbs that are 5/8 in diameter.
Compact flourscents are basically a really long bulb that is bent in half like a U.
Your lights should be Ok for a bta. Depending on your aquascaping it will probably sit up on your highest rocks.
The water parameters need to be constant more than anything but should be with the range. pH 8.1-8.4, sg 1.023-1.026, Ca 380-420ppm, dkH 8-12, PO4- 0ppm, NO2- 0ppm, NO3- 0ppm, NH3- 0ppm.
Also how long has your tank been setup?
Yes it is recommended to direct feed your anemone meaty foods (krill, shrimp, squid, silversides, etc.).