Keep in mind, there are two things going on here, skimming and draining. The size of the plumbing and how it functions, e.g. open air, full siphon, etc., determine the capacity of the drain. If the return pump has a higher flow rate than the capacity of the drain, the tank will overflow, period. The size/shape of the overflow box in the tank has nothing to do with this as long as it is not restricting flow to the drain(s). The overflow box controls how much skimming occurs. It is the length of edge on the overflow that determines its capacity. The capacity of the overflow box should be higher than that of the return pump to minimize the thickness of the water layer spilling over the edge and maximize the skimming action.
There should be a difference in height between the edge of the overflow box and the drain(s) inside the box to cause the water to fall and allow skimming to occur. If the drain plumbing can handle the pump, the water will leave the tank as it is pumped in. If the overflow box is properly sized skimming will occur as the water moves from the display tank to the drain. Imagine the system with the pump off, the water level in the display tank will be at the top of the over flow box. The water level in the overflow box will be at the bottom of the drain hole(s). If you turn on the pump for a moment, water moves into the display tank, spills over the edge of the overflow box and down the drain.
If there is a long edge on the overflow box, the layer falling over can be very thin and still move a lot of water because of its length, lots of skimming. As the rate of flow increases, the thickness of the layer has to increase to move the extra water thus reducing the skimming effect as more water is entering the overflow box from below the surface “skin”. I think this is the problem you are having, not enough edge length. The location of the box and the amount of fall are negligible factors. According to the calculator, a 7” overflow can handle at most 450 GPH. It is hard to do more than speculate what the true issue is without more information about your setup. If you don’t know what your turnover is, what pump are you using?