Xenia don't necessarily have to pulse to show they're happy. If they're open, that's good. But no one really knows exactly why they pulse. It might be to increase flow around them, catch more floating particles, a natural response to gathering light... Some people never get them to pulse at all, and they do just fine, growing and multiplying. I'd say as long as they're open and looking good (aside from the pulsing), there's no need to freak out and worry about them dying. Trust me, you'll know when they're unhappy. They ball up and don't open up again.
The key here is: patience...
If they go downhill, then you can act. Otherwise, I'd just check your parameters to make sure they're still in check. If they are, then relax and observe. If not, do a little supplementing to get things back in line. Unless you KNOW there's a problem, don't worry more than is necessary. Wait. Observe. And otherwise go about your normal routine.