> When your tank gets more attention than your spouse, 2 dogs, 3 cats, 3 birds and your family (aging parents, etc.)
>when you and spouse/significant other argue over rock placement and wet towels all the time
>when you dash out for more batteries cuz your 5 flash lights keep dying from staying up all night spying on the tank
>when you dream or have nightmares about a tank crash
>when you work at home and can't focus on work anymore
>when you read RC incessantly
>when you live in sweats and old clothes cuz of water changes and cleanup all the time
>when you go broke because your utility bills are 3x what they used to be
>when you break down and get an A/C unit for the tank, and not for the hot miserable newfie!!