Huh? I read your post a few times and have trouble attempting to figure out what you're asking...
Socket has little to do directly with the ballast or "quality" (based on the really good sockets and refractors comment). Typically the reflector has nothing to do with the ballast as well (unless they came as a bundle). Your cheap PFO dual HQI ballast isn't a bad decision at all.
My suggestion would be to sit down, compose a post we can all understand, explain your current setup, and describe what you'd like to see. Are you looking for all the different lighting components, just individual parts, don't understand what to buy, don't understand where to buy, etc. That's my best recommendation based on the little amount I could decipher.