Ok, let's pick this apart a bit and see if we can improve your design. I think you will eventually be disappointed in the way you have it.
In my opinion there are two ways to go about designing flow for a tank, with brute force or with finesse. And while at first glance finesse may seem like less flow from a gph standpoint, it can actually be more effcient flow but will still achieve the same end goal. But one thing you should be prepared for is that as corals grow in you may need to generate even more flow to ensure it gets everywhere. To do this you can always overbuild and dial back at first. Then you have headroom later when you need it.
hmm , so is there a way to figure out what pump to go with then ? there are a few different types to choose from . the holes i drilled in the bottom will take a 3/4" bulk head so the plumbing will be on the smaller side , but with 8 returns on one side and 6 on the other side i was figuring 3/4" pipe will be plenty.
First, your plumbing will dictate some of your pump needs as every elbow, T, and elevation will add "head" to the pump.The more head you have the less flow there will be. RC has a calculator to help you out but it may not have the pump listed that you want. Others on here can help you figure it out exactly but I just usally assume each elbow adds 1' of head and estimate it from there. I usually get pretty close.
Now, about your 3/4" holes. If you can enlarge them without weakening the bottom panel then do it. 3/4" will provide you good velocity which may seem like a lot of flow but it will actually restrict quite a bit of flow and give you a very narrow "channel" of water flowing out of each orifice which can be damaging to corals place to close to this flow. If you can enlarge them to 1" or better yet, 1.5" you can actually get more flow in the tank. If you can't enlarge all the holes then a few would be better than none.
i may also plumb them so every other hole is one pump , and then the other hole is another pump , this way during the day i can turn on both pumps , and then at night time turn 1 pump off so there is less flow in the tank , i bought an APEX unit so im wondering if i can maybe program that to turn pumps on and off at random every few hours ? i have looked at the oceans motion units and really think i could benifit from one of them , but i think ill keep it simple with just pumps and timers .
Don't reduce your flow at night. The ocean does not reduce flow at night. For all intents and purposes ocean current is constant (that's an oversimplification, I know). You also have tidal flows that change direction and I think there is more importance to this type of flow than we realize but I'm not smart enough to prove that. Someone else will have to.

Anyway, the ocean may seem calmer at night as the wind dies down but you still have a stong current going on beneath the waves. Also, in our tanks, night is a lower oxygen point as everthing is now giving off CO2. The last thing you want to do is reduce the flow and reduce gas exchange. You could certainly use Apex timers to turn the pumps on and off but I would only do it for short periods to give the animals some slack time but that would be it. However it's probably not necessary. I wouldn't go with the Oceans Motion units either. I had one in the past. It was cool but it complicated plumbing and reduced flow rather then enhance it. You would be surprised how much random flow can be generated from laminar flow. After creating a gyre type flow in my tank I'm a convert. My aquascape breaks up the laminar flow and creates random patterns. Yes I still have laminar flow but the entire volume of water is moving creating more of a current type flow. Every six hours it changes directions.
im looking at these flow acclerators
http://www.aquacave.com/Flow-Accelerators--P1616C1133.aspx
i wonder what is better spinning or non spinning ?
I don't think either matters as I think those are a poor excuse for an eductor. If you're stuck with 3/4" then I would get these but you can get them in 1" too.
http://premiumaquatics.com/store/me..._Code=PA&Product_Code=KT-P-M07&Category_Code=
for the sump , im going to look for a 4'x2'x2' tank and baffle it , put in 4 7" filter socks , id like to go bigger , but i really need to fit everything under the stand , along with the 2 55 gallon drums im also going to put a half 55 drum under there for live rock holding
the skimmer is a pm bullet 2xl so it can sit outside of the sump the pump on the skimmer is a blueline 70hd and that pumps 1750gph
so maybe 2 dart pumps will work good for a return ?
So we're down to sump to tank flow. You will hear a lot, and I mean a lot, of people tell you to match your return flow to your skimmer processing and not to use your return pumps for flow in your tank. I think it's a bunch of bunk but that is my opinion so only you can decide if that's worth anything to you.

The supporters of sump flow no more than 3 times tank volume per hour (or even exactly the same rate as the skimmer) will tell you that you need to slow the flow down to get the skimmer to get all the water processed. Unless you can get every molecule of water to go through the skimmer you'll never get it to process all the water on the first pass. Even if you could somehow do that, many, many, many water molecules will not get processed by the skimmer and will just flow through it. It will take multiple passes to process your tank water and since it's a closed system with constant input of organics (food, fish poop, etc) I believe the tank will reach a level state of skimmer export based on the skimmer effciency, not the amount of flow past the skimmer.
All that being said I'm running my return pumps at about 4-5 times my tank volume. Not a huge amount over the "recommended" but so far it seems sufficient. One thing to keep in mind is you can always increase velocity in the tank by stepping down your pipe size at the outlet but you can't increase flow with bigger pipe beyond what the pump can produce. You'll have to play with this as each tank will have unique needs. Extra velocity is not always bad depending on how it's implemented but it's not always the best thing either. My return pumps are connected to 1.25" pipe but I stepped that down at the outlet to 1" to increase velocity to push the water across 5 feet of tank. However, the outlets push the water along the glass and "bank" it off the front glass to get it moving in a circular pattern around the tank. This flow is not pointed directly at the rock work that will contain corals and it won't be as it would be too much velocity for the animals.
So, about the Darts... Let's say you go with the minimum spec of 3 times tank volume per hour, you need to move water at 1500 gals per hour. Depending on how much head you end up with on your return, 2 Darts may be able to accomplish this or more. If it's too much you can always valve them back (you can pretty much do this with any of the hobbiest pumps). But I had a Snapper (a Dart with a different impeller) and it was far from silent. Plus I had to replace the shaft seal in less than a year (I read about this happening a lot). Honestly I think there are better pumps out there. Something else to consider is your tank heating strategy (assuming you won't need to cool it). Submersible pumps can be a great way to heat a tank. You need to run the pump anyway you might as well get some heat for that effort and reduce or eliminate your actual heater needs. Once I get my tank fully enclosed I may be able to get away with no heater. But then I don't have to worry about chilling issues either. YMMV.
Whew, sorry this is so long but flow in a tank is a complicated topic although it doesn't have to be complicated to implement if you plan for it well at the outset. And I don't suggest you take my word for it. Do some more research on this subject and decide what will work best for your tank.
Good luck!
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