The extra front to back space is spectacular in a 120. I opted for a 90 as well and regret it but have learned to live with it as it will be the last tank I purchase while in this home. Light and flow should seriously be comparable in cost. Only increased cost factor should be possibly skimmer size, and cost of water/salt/additives.
....and rock, sand, fish, coral, and inverts to make it look equally full as a 90 would...
but yes, the extra front to back space IS amazing. Thats why I went for the 120 myself. I love it!