my husband say's its neglect.
I have 3 forums I browse, and I get annoyed when there isnt any thing I can post.I try to go to bed when he does, I usually end up getting up an hour later and logging on to RC.
It was his Idea to got the reef, now he doesn't do a thing to it.
If something needs to be adjusted in the tank he points it out to me then says he cant do it cause "his hands are dirty" but does he go to wash them? NO! he just sits there.
I do all of it.The cleaning, testing, fragging, researching, buying, catching, arranging, doseing, treating. But he gets mad if I use the phrase "My tank"
meanwhile he's at the LFS with me (on the rare occasions that he goes) saying "allergy" insted of "algae"