I think many people have. I paired mine by making sure I added a juvenile to the female's tank. She beat the crap out of him for a few weeks, but it is a 180 so he was able to escape with just some frayed fins. Then one day, boom, lovey-dovey in the bta.
In smaller tanks many people recommend keeping the male visible but segregated for a while. Just be aware that not all males survive the process.