ok past 2 nights tried feeding in a bowl. Tonight I took extreme measures.. took a pair of tweezers took the mysis shrimp and help it on the mouth until it took it in. Did this with several of the polyps and seems like it took it in and kept it in.. they are now puffed up like they want more, still no tentacles gonna do it again and hope for the best tomorrow night.
and tweezers are a bing PITA =( but I dunno why i am so determined to save this $10 peice of coral lol