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I dropped in over there and shot Mary a PM basically saying that this whole thing was out of hand and that I never meant to hurt anyone's feelings. I was trying to be an adult and mend fences.

I got banned from the forum for a month for my troubles. I don't know if I will be going back when my suspension is up. That's pretty silly.

I just wish I knew who banned me. Mary? Okay, fine, she's t'ed off, whatever. Ron or Barry? That's a whole different matter. If anyone knows or cares to comment, I'd love to hear it.
 
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Barry's only involvement with the club is via donating prizes and space so I can say for certain it wasn't him.
 
Oh bother here we go again.

Now I believe I'm starting to see some more insight into past.... incidents that have occurred.
 
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<a href=showthread.php?s=&postid=15374193#post15374193 target=_blank>Originally posted</a> by Kung
I just wish I knew who banned me. Mary? Okay, fine, she's t'ed off, whatever.
Well it's really not fine.
If you're the moderator of a forum you can't make decisions emotionally. To hit and run here and then ban you from there is just...:rolleyes:

FWIW I understand if you're banned from RC you know which mod took the action and the exact reason for the ban....I don't know this first hand though. :lol:
 
Since this is a discussion board and this seems to be a topic of interest as of late, I feel like this should be discussed openly.
First let me begin by saying in no way shape or form am I trying to attack anyone or any entity. These are strictly the views of me, myself, and I. No one else. I merely want this to be constructive criticism on my part in hopes that it will further the relations of local hobbyist, club members, and LFS's for the better.

Some are not going to like what I am about to write. So lets try to leave the emotions and anger out of this discussion.

Ok,
I feel the club president and maybe others involved wanted to break away from RC for nothing more than monetary gain. To have complete control over club members and the advice they are given. Not to educate local hobbyist. I dont think it is wise to have a club where the president works for and is associated with a local saltwater pet store. Dont get me wrong the work that the president and others of the club have done should not go without merit. However I dont believe someone would have put as much effort into a club if they didnt have something to gain in the long run. The club now has the ability to suggest to customers that they need this or that and it can be purchased at said store. And I am sure 10 out of 10 times if it is suggested it could be bought at the store they are associated with. It just so happened that the break from RC came right when this project 66 was about to happen. It was just convenient to have your own forum so you could promote your so called high tech, state of the art, propagation facility.


Before CVRC decided to break away from RC I went over and joined up. Once inside the forum I read several post and one in particular comes to mind. This post pretty much backs my theory about them having something to gain. The president wrote a post in response to a newcomers questions that they had came to the right place for advice. The president of CVRC wrote and I quote "you came to the right place for advice, there are only 2 people around here that know how to successfully keep a reef tank. Sure anyone can start one but only myself and maybe 1 or 2 other people know how to keep one long term". When you post something like this on your forum you are insulting mine and many others intelligence. You are not the only one that knows how to keep a successful reef aquarium. Comments like this only prove my view that what you are doing within the club is only for personal profit. It suggest that if you listen to me and buy what I tell you that you too can keep a successful reef tank. This is just not true. Sure the advice you give may not be incorrect but when you are affiliated with a LFS it is very bias. Something else I have noticed on CVRC is this poster contest. You are wanting members to hang up these poster at any business they want. When you do this what you are really doing is promoting the LFS that is associated with the club. So lets call it what it is. These kind of contest are not ideal when the club president works for a certain LFS.

To me a "club" should be controlled by the members not a select few. If no one else wanted to put in the time and effort to keep the club running then there shouldnt be a club. Let the LFS's business dictate whether or not you shop there not because said club promotes it. Yeah one particular LFS allows the use of space and what not, but you dont think this generates business (profit).
So lets not act like they do it just out of the goodness of their heart. Or maybe they do? Thats why I would like to discuss this.

And as far as Kung is concerned, I am not sure why he was banned from CRVC, but your actions speak volumes!

These are only a few opinions and examples of why I am not an active member within CVRC.

Maybe I am completely wrong here. Please enlighten me.
 
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Good points made.

Something that should be known when the club was here we couldn't mention any stores in this forum. My understanding was that it was taboo by Reef Central... I know I got some you can't say Inland Reef comments after mentioning them. Now it is my understanding mentioning stores are fine unless your an employee/closely associated with a store is the case.... IDK a mod would need to verify that.

Another event that I don't really care to go into publicly also raised questions with me.

Either way I feel like I'll shop around as I always have and get what I want where I want to get it.
 
Let me clarify something that I was asked about

I wrote

And as far as Kung is concerned, I am not sure why he was banned from CRVC, but your actions speak volumes!

When I should have wrote

And as far as Kung situation is concerned, I am not sure why he was banned from CVRC, but CVRC's actions speak volumes!
 
<a href=showthread.php?s=&postid=15380618#post15380618 target=_blank>Originally posted</a> by sixliner6
I would love to know what petty squable this is all about.

People are anal retentive and flap their lips before they open their eyes.

Or better put one takes sarcasm they can't read twist it into something they want.
 
Here is what I have to say on this matter. I hate to see "us", reef aquarists argue over things, this is one of the reasons I have not been using this forum. The whole idea of having a club was to make it easier and more fun to have a nice reef system. I have made numerous friends on both this forum and the CVRC forum.

I will try to answer some of the questions you posed:

As far as making money goes, I guess all members that have sold frags/equipment have made some money from selling their aquacultured livestock or equipment at the meets. I doubt the store made very much as the meetings took up quite a bit of floor space and items were routinely stolen while meetings were happening. This was one of the reasons the meetings were moved to the funeral home. Myself I have probably made enough money from meetings to come close to upkeeping my tanks.

I guess the posters could be seen as a promotion of a store since some of the meetings have been held at the store. However, this was not the reason for the posters. They were made to promote the club and grow its membership.

Project 66 is a grand achievement for JoMars petstore/ CVRC and I think all area reefers should be proud of this happening in WV. I know at this time more coral has been given away through contests to CVRC members from project 66 than have been sold from it. I think the end of the club on RC had been a long time coming much longer than the idea of building the propagation system.

I think the comment about only a couple people being able to keep tanks successfully was truthful and not meant to insult others. At the time the remarks were made there were only a few "known" people in the area successfully keeping most hard to keep coral and they wanted to share what they had learned with others.

I do not know if I was one of the few but I can say this in my defense. If anyone ever asked me for help or a question about something they did not know how to do I readily assisted. If they needed something plumbed I did it for free to help out, if they needed help building a canopy I showed them how to do it, if they needed to sell items or livestock and did not know how to get rid of it quickly I usually bought it or tried to help them sell it, if they needed to ask questions about water chemistry, how to keep air bubbles out of a sump I sure did try to explain it to them. (I did all of this FOR NO MONETARY GAIN)

The club no longer has a president and is now being ran by a governing board of moderators and administrators. Any member has the ability to become part of the governing body of the club after receiving approval by vote. I feel the club has been running very smoothly since this change.

I know the rule of not mentioning stores on this board mostly sprang from Jason's critique of area fish stores. As it caused quite a bit of problems from a certain area fish store. This is also the reason the CVRC has limited promotion to only sponsor stores on its forum.

I do not know why Kung was banned from the board. I am waiting to see what happened. Maybe he could give you all more details.
 
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I just wish I knew who banned me. Mary? Okay, fine, she's t'ed off, whatever.
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<a href=showthread.php?s=&postid=15375309#post15375309 target=_blank>Originally posted</a> by coralreefer
Well it's really not fine.
If you're the moderator of a forum you can't make decisions emotionally. To hit and run here and then ban you from there is just...:rolleyes:

FWIW I understand if you're banned from RC you know which mod took the action and the exact reason for the ban....I don't know this first hand though. :lol:

Amy it was not me and it was not done out of emotions.

All I did was state the truth. The truth is we are very happy in our new home, no one argues or throws tantrums or puts down other members anymore.

As far as I am concerned the CVRC should have stayed here as we did first communicate on this site. But it became a real PITA to have to double post everything. That is why the decision by the majority of the council was to lock down the CVRC Postings here on RC with a link to the new forum.

But some had a tantrum and we gave in and let you keep it with a new name. I never thought that should have been done. A new Name Club/Group or what ever your billing yourselves as should have started from scratch. It just seems wrong to me. Lets use an example. You decide to build a house, you haven't built it yet you just decided that you wanted to, you haven't made any plans yet it is just an idea. But the utility companys decide hey she wants to build a house so lets start charging her for Electric, gas, water etc. So now you have all these bills bearing dates beginning years before you even decided where to build your house. Would that be reasonable. I don't think so. Or the post office starts delivering your mail to the property before you even bought it. Yet you all think it is okay to have a club forum with threads dated years before you even began.

Whatever.

as for who banned kung? Was not me. Personally all I did was telling him that yes I was offended but more so by what he said in his PM to me than anything else.

Personally I want nothing to do with your argueing back and forth. I have gotten divorced for less. It is just stupid.
 
<a href=showthread.php?s=&postid=15381210#post15381210 target=_blank>Originally posted</a> by phljess
I do not know if I was one of the few but I can say this in my defense. If anyone ever asked me for help or a question about something they did not know how to do I readily assisted. If they needed something plumbed I did it for free to help out, if they needed help building a canopy I showed them how to do it, if they needed to sell items or livestock and did not know how to get rid of it quickly I usually bought it or tried to help them sell it, if they needed to ask questions about water chemistry, how to keep air bubbles out of a sump I sure did try to explain it to them. (I did all of this FOR NO MONETARY GAIN)

I don't see any need for you to defend yourself. I haven't seen a single post calling you. I certainly do appreciate the time you spoke to me about the sump idea and while I don't recall any other specific events I don't doubt you helped me on others over the last couple of years. I know you have helped others a lot as well.

I have the pleasure of getting acquainted with several others in the club which were friendly and/or helpful including sixliner6, rnhrtfan, cdbias2, igotsalt, coralreefer, mattg, lowcel, spinnerbayt, undertaker, altpers0na, and firefish2020 (I'm sure there are many more that I haven't got to know). I may not agree with every ones politics but I can still like/respect them.


<a href=showthread.php?s=&postid=15381210#post15381210 target=_blank>Originally posted</a> by phljess

The club no longer has a president and is now being ran by a governing board of moderators and administrators.

It may not have a President but it does have a private owner. Are most other reef clubs non-profit organizations (I don't know)?


<a href=showthread.php?s=&postid=15381210#post15381210 target=_blank>Originally posted</a> by phljess
I know the rule of not mentioning stores on this board mostly sprang from Jason's critique of area fish stores. As it caused quite a bit of problems from a certain area fish store. This is also the reason the CVRC has limited promotion to only sponsor stores on its forum.

While I have never owned, administrated, or moderated a message board I have been an active member in many during the past 10 years. Over this time, I have seen several occasions were people threaten legal action. Never once have I heard of anything coming out of it. In one case I saw a very positive change from a board continuing a thread after being threaten legally. While I don't doubt this event happened as you described, it seems to be a convenient excuse to limit competition.

A club should be in existence to help members as the number one goal, not 'Support your LFS'. While, I do find it important to support LFS it shouldn't come at the expense of the members. So being able to talk openly about buying dry goods or livestock online is a huge issue for me. This will vary from person to person, but I really will pay more for something locally but only to a point. Being opposed to a online group buy for certain bulk dry items because you can get the same items (non-bulk) locally hurts the membership base pockets all in the name of supporting your LFS. In the example I'm referring too I imagine the price difference would have been huge.
 
<a href=showthread.php?s=&postid=15381540#post15381540 target=_blank>Originally posted</a> by carb850
I don't see any need for you to defend yourself. I haven't seen a single post calling you. I certainly do appreciate the time you spoke to me about the sump idea and while I don't recall any other specific events I don't doubt you helped me on others over the last couple of years. I know you have helped others a lot as well.

Like I said, I dont know if the early reply was aimed toward me or not so I just thought I would clear somethings up.

I have the pleasure of getting acquainted with several others in the club which were friendly and/or helpful including sixliner6, rnhrtfan, cdbias2, igotsalt, coralreefer, mattg, lowcel, spinnerbayt, undertaker, altpers0na, and firefish2020 (I'm sure there are many more that I haven't got to know). I may not agree with every ones politics but I can still like/respect them.

Same here, that is why I dont know why there has to always be drama on this board. I think everyone has been helpful to me at sometime. However, I took offense to the whole CVRC is just for monetary gain thing. I guess this is why I went through some of the things I helped people do over the years.


It may not have a President but it does have a private owner. Are most other reef clubs non-profit organizations (I don't know)?

He created it, shouldn't he have some say over it? I dont know about other clubs either and it really does not matter that much to me. I mean anyone here could do the same thing Ron did. So why dont they? Maybe cause they will not spend the time and effort to get it off the ground.


While I have never owned, administrated, or moderated a message board I have been an active member in many during the past 10 years. Over this time, I have seen several occasions were people threaten legal action. Never once have I heard of anything coming out of it. In one case I saw a very positive change from a board continuing a thread after being threaten legally. While I don't doubt this event happened as you described, it seems to be a convenient excuse to limit competition.

I guess you can see it as you want. Everyone has the right to their opinion on the matter and I guess it could be seen as a way to limit competition also. I guess I am the only one here that remembers when a certain LFS tried to shut down the club and was able to stop the auctions we once held.


A club should be in existence to help members as the number one goal, not 'Support your LFS'. While, I do find it important to support LFS it shouldn't come at the expense of the members. So being able to talk openly about buying dry goods or livestock online is a huge issue for me. This will vary from person to person, but I really will pay more for something locally but only to a point. Being opposed to a online group buy for certain bulk dry items because you can get the same items (non-bulk) locally hurts the membership base pockets all in the name of supporting your LFS. In the example I'm referring too I imagine the price difference would have been huge.

The club has had various group buys in the past from livestock to equipment. Right now there is a group buy happening on the CVRC. I agree people should be able to find good deals and pass them on. On the other hand though, I do wonder what is going to happen to most of the local stores as more and more people buy online. I guess they will go out of business and people will need to wait for a bucket of salt to be ground shipped to them when they have to do an emergency water change.
 
<a href=showthread.php?s=&postid=15381675#post15381675 target=_blank>Originally posted</a> by phljess I agree people should be able to find good deals and pass them on. On the other hand though, I do wonder what is going to happen to most of the local stores as more and more people buy online. I guess they will go out of business and people will need to wait for a bucket of salt to be ground shipped to them when they have to do an emergency water change. [/B]

Which is one of the MASSIVE sticking points a lot of people have with the CVRC controlled forums past and present. If I mention that Bob's fish store in Logan has 50 gallon tanks for $1.00 and started carrying Reef supplies I get beat over the head and banished.

That's not fair to people down in Logan Williamson areas that would drive another 1~2 hours to get their tank or for that matter anything else they would need (salt for that emergency change??!!!) from the "sponsor stores" when they had one locally they didn't know about but could have heard about here if it was allowed to post about them.
 
First off, Phil, I respect you and appreciate all the help you gave me. You sold me a pump for my skimmer when I was in a bind and have always been a decent guy. I hate that you are now caught up in this, too.

As for this:
<a href=showthread.php?s=&postid=15381210#post15381210 target=_blank>Originally posted</a> by phljess

I do not know why Kung was banned from the board. I am waiting to see what happened. Maybe he could give you all more details.

The only thing not perfectly visible about this ordeal is the PM I sent Mary. I would copy that in it's entirety, but I think that there are rules about that and I cannot get to it anyway due to the lock on my account. There was nothing there rude, cruel, or aggressive. It was an apology for starting some stuff, so I cannot imagine what the problem was there. Those are the details I have. If someone is going to explain that it's going to have to be Mary or whoever did the banning.

That said, I never meant to be on a side. I am just a guy trying to enjoy my reef. Due to the way I have been treated here, I will now think twice before supporting the CVRC with my hard-earned cash. Banning me seems like it is punishment for my non-compliance with the party line, and if anyone has a different explanation, I am all ears.

Meanwhile, to quote the Jerky Boys, "This is just not good business, my friend."
 
<a href=showthread.php?s=&postid=15381855#post15381855 target=_blank>Originally posted</a> by LtPiper
Which is one of the MASSIVE sticking points a lot of people have with the CVRC controlled forums past and present. If I mention that Bob's fish store in Logan has 50 gallon tanks for $1.00 and started carrying Reef supplies I get beat over the head and banished.

That's not fair to people down in Logan Williamson areas that would drive another 1~2 hours to get their tank or for that matter anything else they would need (salt for that emergency change??!!!) from the "sponsor stores" when they had one locally they didn't know about but could have heard about here if it was allowed to post about them.

Exactly. I would appreciate as a member knowing these kind of info at the same time sharing to others great items I found in other LFS. What's the harm of this when all it does is help the members and the LFS?

This is the main reason I left CVRC. Why should I not be allowed to help other members find a certain item by telling him that another LFS has it? I had the purest intentions to help other members and yet the 'club' limits me to do just that. Sorry, but that just goes against my morals.

One time I was actually tempted to pay the sponsorship fees for Fuji so I can mention them but hey, I'm not that crazy.
 
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