There's a chance they will bully the females. Mine were ok up until 1.5-2 years in. The male started picking on the ladies pretty bad. They are cool fish and my lone survivor gets along great with everyone else in the tank including a fathead anthias. I don't really do much dry food, except nls pellets for some of the fish. The anthias don't go for them too much. They go after pretty much everything else I throw in, though. I generally feed frozen mysis, frozen reef caviar, and refrigerated ROE from reef nutrition. I used to feed once a day, but have been doing every other day now.