SugarFox, you're not alone.
Female, and my current tank is a 3G pico. I'm about to step it up to a 10Hex pico. I also love African cichlids, large south american predators, s/w predators, and rams, but I just don't have the space for more than those two tanks.
.... and I enjoy just about everything on your list except for the truck driving (don't have a truck, but I enjoy going on off-road-rescues with a friend of mine), surfing (don't know how, but would like to), and shooting (meh, no real interest). Can I make up for that by having a staunch love of zombie flicks and playing with fire (poi, that is)?