Hi all,
I was on the road this last week working like a dog, so I had no time to post updates -- or do much else, really. Anyway, let me follow up with some updates and some responses to the kind comments you've added this week. First, the updates:
I signed the contract with my contractor to do all the construction -- and there is a lot of it, like $20,000 worth. I'll take pictures throughout when we start on Monday the 14th.
The BK500 from Aquarium Specialty is sitting in Denver ready to be delivered by freight. Alas, I am going on vacation this week and so it will be postponed to next week.
I ordered a Generac QuietSource generator for the house (okay, for the tank

) to be delivered shortly. It's 16KW and should be reasonably quiet as well. All the circuits for the tank will be routed through its transfer switch, as well as my well pump, kitchen appliances, and maybe even a light bulb or two. I've been wanting one of these for the house anyway (we live in the middle of no where and the day we have a heavy snowstorm and lose power we will be stuck, literally...), so this was a good excuse. The generator detects outages (we have short ones frequently throughout the summer) and spins up about 60 seconds later to deliver power. I will hook it up to my 500-gallon propane tank (which normally just fuels the furnace) and I should get a good 4 or 5 days of runtime on an average (250-gallon) fill with it running at peak load.
I also got in my sample of Sani-Tred liquid rubber, which I am experimenting with on some metal (thinking of coating the stand in it) and some plywood (for use to make the rubber floor). I finished the third coat tonight and so I'll see what it looks like when I get back next weekend!
I purchased a large stock tank to use to hold all my existing live rock (and a few pieces of coral and my one, lonely blenny) while the construction goes on. I'll pump everything over to it next weekend and drag the rock out.
Speaking of that tank, the topoff sensor failed on last week and slowly dripped the entire topoff container into my bamboo floor.... ruining it. I will take some pictures of the parts I cut into to try to save my subfloor and get things dried out faster. So we will be replacing the living room floor as part of this project as well.

(I kinda wanted to replace the floor, too, so I guess it's just as well. Still -- use redundant sensors or install a waterproof room. Lesson learned.)
Now for your comments:
Sounds like you have a good plain for the project. You did not mention the painting of the walls, you mentioned vapor barrier. It was recommended to me when I set up my tank to paint the wall with exterior paint to keep the moister out of the drywall.
Hi Steven, yeah, my contractor has talked me out of redoing the drywall. We think a serious waterproof paint will do the job just fine. The floor will still be a rubber "bathtub" with a 3 or 4 inch curve up the sides of the walls. I will evaluate seepage into the drywall over the course of a year or so by leaving access to a piece of it from the other side of one of the interior walls. If it looks like a problem at that point we'll have to go to a fallback plan.
I used yacht bilge paint on the walls and ceiling of my in-wall 1000g display and I am very happy with it. I also use 3 fans to keep my tank cool. 2 draw from under the tank and blow across the top between the water and the halides. 1 draws from ceiling height at the other end of the tank and exhausts outside. Makeup air is an open attic style vent in the tank room wall that is under my deck. We are having a heat wave right now and my tank maxed at 81.9F yesterday with ambient temp. at 96F. The fans are 6".
Jonathan, thanks for the comments. I have read your thread all the way through and really enjoy all your creative "solutions," including the square skimmer.

I will definitely PM you in the future and maybe try to give you a ring. Perhaps I should just take a tour of the northwest and visit all the huge tanks that seem to be up there?

Anyway, my biggest concern is noise, so I have to work carefully to get good fans. By the way, my wife suffered two strokes this year, so I am sympathetic. She has different deficits than the ones I've seen you describe, but she is a trooper and hopefully will rebound given time and patience. And lots of therapy and hard work.
First congrats on the wife ..
BK 500 wow that thing has to be HUGE, I saw one on Aquarium Specialty's site and that thing is HUGE.. Please post photo when it arrives. Keep up the killer work!
p.s. Maybe your wife can call my wife and I can get a BK ..
Thank you, she is truly a blessing.

The BK500 will definitely merit some pictures; I'm a photographer by hobby, so you'll see a lot of shots once I get going and have interesting things to shoot. I'm wary of the wife-to-wife chat just on the off chance that it backfires and YOUR wife convinces MINE that my idea sucks. Ha, ha!
Ben