huh, i wonder if thats whats going on in my tank, this is a long story , but, the original pair i got from premium, one disappeared...............i looked everwhere , couldnt find it, so i bought another, and , wouldnt you know it , there the other was in the overflow where i had looked..................so i now had 3..........the original male was smaller than the replacement i bought so he got chased, he now lives in one of my 2 rbta all by himself.....................they seem to tolerate him, sure they harrass him a little but nothing where i see damage.............i felt bad for him and tried another to see if hed pair up with it, well that one disappeared too........................so for over a year its been this way........................its almost like the female remembers him as her original mate and pretty much leaves him be.............i wonder if trying another small clown to keep him company would be a bad or good idea at this point...................he bounces back and forth from one rbta to another, the main pair live in my seabae