Yeah, I think the nem might not be the smartest thing to start with. And like you said, clowns will sometimes host in other things. I'd like to start with hardy livestock as I have no idea how well I will do with a reef tank as it's my first.
As for the rock, I wanted to order when I get back home, but I may wait until the end of the month as I still have a lot of things I need to buy or prep to be ready for it. It seems like Richard turns orders around wicked fast!
I would love to take you up on the offer to see the rock and help with hitchhickers!! In fact, I have been having nightmares thinking about all the unknowns (for me) and have read some threads about hitchhickers that sound horrible.
I ordered a bunch of stuff that should be waiting for me when I get home, but I need to take inventory to see what I'm still missing.
At a minimum I need to get a pump (rw4 most likely) and I would think the skimmer (Aquaticlife 115, unless someone tells me a reason not too). Do you think I should get the reactor first thing (BRS mini reactor)? Or can I wait on that?
I would love to get an Apex right away (thinking about the Jr to start as I can always migrate that to the freshwater if I upgrade), but I could also wait on that and do things on the cheap for now.
Finally, I have to get a RODI at some point, but am thinking I don't need that immediately, and that will take some planning anyway. I think I can *only* make it work in my laundry room, and it's not a big room, so my wife is gonna LOVE that idea.
So many questions!!
I know there is no way I can do this without making mistakes, but am hoping to minimize expensive ones while having good success.