Mike,
I know there once a lot to talk about the "acro eating" starfish in your pic. But I doubt that is the problem. I think he is just the clean up crew in this case. Iââ"šÂ¬Ã¢"žÂ¢ve seen those starfish in many healthy SPS tanks. But, you never know.
However, the symptoms you describe sound more like a different problem. A very well camouflaged acro eating flatworm is making its way into the hobby. It blends in so well with the color of the coral, it is nearly impossible to see, although it could be as large as 1 cm. I had the same problems you described and was stunned when I finally found them. I do see in the pic what could be the tell tale signs of those flat worms. The darkest of the brown (what looks like dead coral tissue) spots on the dead skeleton could be their eggs. They are very tiny. If youââ"šÂ¬Ã¢"žÂ¢ll PM me your email address I'll send you some picks I got from Mitch Carl that clearly slow the eggs and some flatworm pics I took when I found them on my corals.
To find them, put an acro frag in a quart of tank water and add a cap full of SeaChem Reef Dip (that's what I used) or some other iodine solution. Flat worm exit won't work. Give it a minute to work. Then, firmly and thoroughly spray the frags while they are in the dip. A turkey baster works well for this. This will case the worms to quickly release. Actually, if you donââ"šÂ¬Ã¢"žÂ¢t have reef dip, you can still loosen the worms with a firm rinsing. You can try it this afternoon without having to make a trip to the LFS for reef dip.
If you do have them, they are not that hard to get ride of, if you are diligent. The hard part is knowing when you have them.
Yes, now I quarantine.
Good luck,
Jim Craig