Sometimes, a video is better than a picture. Here's a small clip showing how my dispars "hang out" together.
They're not in a tight group. I think my cardinals pack together more closely together. But they certainly do tend to hang out in the same area of my tank. You can see the fat male keep the group together. It's not that obvious in this clip, but he does determine where the group hangs. He will nudge the females to a certain area from time to time. Notice how the evansi and purple queens hang out with the group too.
This group has been in my tank for about a year now.
Sorry for the sandbed mess. I was reaquascaping the tank.
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