hangles,
No problem, give it time, they will liven up. Looking good so far! I could write a several hundred page book on the stuff if I had the time. Just stay away from using salt, and other nasties, in your mixes and it can work ok.
MarineGirl411,
I dare not answer your questions with specifics, there are too many working philosophies one can use to setup and maintain a reef tank already. Saying one way is better (or the "right" one) is typically only semi educated opinion at best, or pure guesswork or hearsay at worst.
A better question to ask yourself would be what do you want to keep in your tank and how do you want it to look in the future?
After you answer that, look for a current philosophy that will provide the best possible environment for that goal. From there, look for working examples, filter the facts out of the B.S., and develop your plan. Then work your plan and adjust according to what goes on in your tank.