for the sake of a non-biased, two sided conversation, I have had an emerald crab for going on 8 months now and he has been a model citizen in my reef, never touches old or new corals, leaves all the fish alone. I wouldn't know he was in there if I didn't notice him once every week or so just picking away at something on the rock.
On the other hand, I had 8 blue-legged hermits that were awesome for about two months, then out of nowhere just turned into murderous thugs. They all ganged up and killed all 8 various different snails and my conch. All within about a week. It was dramatic, and crazy.
I also have a peppermint shrimp who has been awesome for about 8 months and just now started picking at a frogspawn I just put in there last week. I thump the glass and try to scare him as bad as I can every time I see him near it, and I think I am getting through to him.