It's a choice but it's not going to be based on any factual information if hope and cope remedies and snake oils predominate.. I always tell folks it's their choice but I strive exercise discipline in separating opinion ,anecdote ,wishlful thinking and data.
I did have a 34 year successful career in government and a few years in the military . Most of it was spent and championing choice for developmentally disabled people and the folks who served them throughout.
Your response is out of line. It's unfortunately typical though. When there are no facts to support a point of view turn to personal attack and characterization even if it's as ill informed as your other positions.
Just answer the questions posed regarding your positions if you want an honest discussion. You haven't because you obviously can't and just like listening to yourself.
WOW Really TMZ...??
Who's personal attacking here? Really? from my last post: a one liner comment with the word government in it, being used loosely & referring (not to what you actually did in life) but just making an analogy to someone (yourself) who regardless of the hard proven facts that are true.. which your trying to put across in your point by listing them like an absolute... is actually someone who insists on cramming a dogmatic one way of thinking down any ones throat that sees options that differ even if they are not the best ones... REALLY??
It is ok to constructively differ in opinion. But when someone like you has to re post someone elses comments in order, it does tend to be seen as not expressing constructively but rehashing the comments to point out in a manner somewhat inflamatory to the other person. Actually a way of personal attack by pointing out (in your opinion) everything that is wrong. Offer your facts & opinion.(I don't disagree with some) However, it seems that pointing out what's wrong with someone elses posts is either as equally important to you or more important to you, than helping the original poster.
Instead of constructively JUST voicing your facts and difference.. You chose a personal attack on someone elses experience. Sorry you did not have the same or agree. But it does not give you the right to call someone out in the picking apart way you did by rehashing their posts. You re-posted them first before anything even happened between us. But I'm a personal attacker for making a one line comment??? After all that from you?? LOL You were rude to me from the beginning.
The "facts" that are on my side are... though it's not the proven best method... it has been successfully accomplished by many reefers. Not just me. The first time I ever tried it, it was suggested by a couple other people who had done it. One of them(not in this thread)owns "a" reef shop. But i guess he's wrong, according to you and all the facts of science base on reefkeeping... Whether it's in the your journals of reef experience or not, it's still used by some people in some cases and has worked for them sometimes.
My response is out of line?? LOL
One of your responses seemed to angle on pointing out ones personal life experience which has nothing to do with anything here except personal horn tooting..
"I did have a 34 year successful career in government and a few years in the military . Most of it was spent and championing choice for developmentally disabled people and the folks who served them throughout."
That's commendable sir. Good for you. But people here are supposed to care because??? Are they supposed to like you even more because they know about that commendable fact now?? If it is?? I suppose perhaps you helped many of my friends and their families then? What do you know of my Life and what I've done? Nothing. This really isn't the place to boast or talk about it. But you seem to.
My family has been in the service since the cival war. My father is a decorated MS.(ARMY) Brother in law(Marines) Cousin Secret Service, My mentor from my work place(former Marine)was a navy cross winner in Vietnam and spent time in Ka Sahn during the Tet Offensive. My best child hood friend(Secret Squirrel at SOC SMG Security- Iraq/Afghanistan) We've seen it all... parts etc.. Death. What makes you so special? Ever **** off a soldier. I don't need to brag about myself sir.
Unfortunate that you do. One would think that the "Discipline" that the service taught you, would at least help refrain you from feeling the need to bring it up. Like your special or something? A real Hero or strong representative works on boosting others not foretelling their own achievements.
Go ahead and post another TMZ...
I'm DONE. Personally you come across as a self proclaimed master of telling everyone how it is and everything you've done. Maybe you've done good things. Try to stop acting the opposite with your attitude of putting others down and self promotion. Did that earn you good soldiers when you served??? heh. People don't earn anything by running their mouths against someone else. "I" didn't do that to you until now! My friends everywhere watch my back because when I disagree with people, I still give them respect. Your idea of respect even when you disagree is the kind that gets poeple killed when their in the field. Oh, but you already knew that government guy(you said it) and military man.
This stuff doesn't belong here. You started doing it. At least stay on topic and not off on a personal tangent about ones self!
Feel free to let everyone see your self rectifying post after this.
As I said, I'm DONE. Discipline will keep me from having to reply to your war of BS here any longer. Say what you will.
Sorry to the OP.(Aaron) I hope your problem get solved, even if it's taking the fish out. It "may" be best.. (that worked for me too. More than once. It is proven) Just watch your fish and carefully decide.
Let other people here know what happens. They do want to help.
Someone sensible would have left that alone.