Hi wwwatcher1,
Thanks for your email. It does sound like the problem has something to do with your return and drain rates. It would help if we can see a diagram of how the sump is setup.
I would recommend taking a look at your Durso overflow box and see if it is also surging. If so, there may be too much or too little air getting in to the standpipe; causing the water level the over overflow to fluctuate. If this is happening, it will in turn cause the water level in the sump to fluctuate as well. Are there baffles in the sump? If there are, the change in water level in the sump would be exaggerated.
As others have mentioned on the board, ball valves and check valves should both be installed on the outlet of the pump and not the inlet. You will definitely want to change this around. The diverting tee is also a very good idea. If you will be installing the tee, you will want to install the check valve after the tee.
The RLXT is the correct model for you. The RLT is usually for protein skimmers, or pumping from a basement. Also, I am not certain how big of a difference it will make, but it would probably be better for the pump to be mounted flat. It needed, you can use a short length of vinyl tubing to compensate for the angle.
Please do not hesitate to contact us if you have any further questions.
Sincerely,
Joseph
Marine Depot Customer Service
www.marinedepot.com
714-385-0080