I have had softies for the last 2 years. Some polyps, they're not taking over, thankfully, but the mushrooms are, so I have to remove some. I like leathers. I just added a nice branching hammer, my first LPS. I may add one more LPS at some point.
I have a small (75g) tank, and not a huge amount of flow, so I never intended to have SPS which IMO are a whole 'nuther level of care. I do keep carbon in the sump in case there's chemical warfare, but so far, so good.
I also like the gentle motion of softies, and they are very hardy.