...and an area to hide from my wife when she finds out how much all this is costing! just kidding...love you hunny
are we talking about costs? as far as my wife knows, costs are running between $50 and $150, the olnly exception was the tank, about $300, am I right?

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3) I'm going with M/H for illumination for now with either t-5s or vhos (you guys can chime in with your opinions! I'm not going with LED lighting for now to save on the enormous cost, because I don't feel you get the same growth, and I believe in 2-3 years I will upgrade to LEDs when the technology has matured more.
i'm facing the same problem with the 'MH's growth feeling', it's hard to decide between the technologies... about the costs, LED's prices fell on last month.
just to compare:
Ballast : Galaxy "Select-a-Watt" 250-400 Watt Electronic - 150
Bulb : 250W / 400W Hamilton 14K - 90
Pendant : Coralvue Lumen Bright Large Reflector - 140
final prince: $380 + running costs (electricity bill+6-mth replacement)
LED : Let's say Aquaillumination Sol SuperBlue 12" Module - 399.99
final price: $399.00 + running costs (electricity bill goes down+3yrs replacement)
but you know, we have no 3yrs+ LED TOTM... that is the 'MH's growth feeling'...
4) As for circulation I'm going with two separate ocean motion units each with it's own 5000-6000 gph pumps (you guys can give me your opinions on those pumps as well) As well as a third pump from the sump pushing the same amount. I'm also thinking of putting in 2-4 mp60s (vortec)
I hella like ocean motions, i also have two plugged on Reeflo Super Dart pumps (this combination works!). there're some concerns about drill the bottom glass, but this does not bother me, some thought here?
5) Protein skimmer looks like it might be the reef octopus xp 8000, it's said to be rated for up to 1,500 gallons and looks sharp...what do you think?
this is a great skimmer, have you looked in some alternatives? ATB, Bubble King, Skimz?