Henry
I held exactly the same attitude until 8 years ago, I moved to Mackinaw, population 1600 when we arrived, in 1997. The local businesses are not able to compete with online vendors or even Wal-Mart, which is 12 miles away. It is, however, incredibly nice to have a place to get groceries that is not 12 miles away. Therefore, while I don't do all my business with our local IGA, I do frequent them and buy as often as I am able. The local video store is not as well-stocked or cheap as Hollywood video, which is 13 miles away. Nonetheless, from time to time, I do rent videos from them. January in a small town with frosty roads can be awfully problematic with no local entertainment sources.
For me, I will pay for the convenience of having a local option. Likewise, when I know that our local businesses are having difficult times, I do consider it a duty to help them in what modest ways I can. If convenience isn't enough of a reason, there is a sense of community. Perhaps I'm just a bit out of my time for this modern era, but I do think that we create something powerful when we have a gathering place where people share ideas, knowledge, and opinions. A local fish store may in fact be just such a place. Combine these factors with the fact that a healthy store with the selection that TMR had raises the bar for everyone else. Following the underlying logic of your post, supporting a place like TMR and keeping their ambition in the market, creates an environment of greater competition and selection. To compete, other stores like Fishin' Times, Charlie's, etc, were having to consider their inventories in light of that competition. That's good for all of us as consumers.
I do appreciate the reparte, Henry, even the sardonism! TMR was not a perfect place. More than enough has been posited about it's demise. Ultimately, only those who ran the place know what happened and why it failed for certain. I stand by my post that says we ought to do more to support another effort as ambitious as TMR, when it comes along.
Peace
Kevin