I would definitely go with as much as possible now. Almost every one that I know of that has started with VHOs because they were "only doing softies" has now upgraded to halides. Besides, most softies can handle more light than some of the SPS we keep. They may not _need_ the light, but in most cases they will actualy prefer it more. I have seen SPS suffer from llighting upgrades, while softies thrive under the same upgrade in the same tank.
I have 1 softie tank that is only 19" deep with 400s a few inches above the water.. leathers, shrooms, colts, xenia,, all love the light.
1 lamp over the center will be difficult because of the center brace. If you dont mind the look of a lopsided tank, you could use one for now, and add a second later. I would go with either 400s or 250s on an HQI (m-80) ballasts