Platax,
I a very sorry to hear about your wfe's job. My wife lost her income a year ago and I know how muh that sucks.
I have a potenial solution. MVLK is a DB guy, and I am a systems god. I ahve a very high speed link here and several servers (yes servers). We can have forums, and our own community if we want at very little, if any cost. ZachB also has some background here, so maybe he might be able to add som help as well.
Ceegee is a graphics guy, and maybe he can tie in the ui peice?
My resume includes being the systems architect behind Microsoft's windows update, and Windows Genuine. Believe me when I say we have whatever we need at our disposal. Count me in for helping.
I am not a web developer, but between mvlk and I, I ahve an idea for a great, yet free solution to use.
Food for thought.
Andy