Psychology,
Womem find passion attractive. They find it even more attractive when it's non compettitive (to them).
Repeat after me...
Well hon, it was either that or the casino....
Repeat after me....
I find that as addictive as I do you.
Repeat after me...
I need something as beautiful as you, when you're not around.
Repeat after me.....
You letting me do this is just another reason to remind me how glad I am that you decided to marry me..
Repeat after me.....\
I know baby, I know, Let me make it up to you..
And if worst comes to worst....
I had these fish before I met you, and if it comes to it, I'll have them after you're gone.