I like to think that many of you are joking about the "controversy" with your partner whenever you expand your hobby or purchase something new for the tank. Perhaps I am extremely fortunate that my wife, although she does not have the same appreciation for the hobby that I do, is totally supportive, as I am with her interests. Now, I am not spending the mortgage or utility payment in the purchase of a fish or coral, and I hope none of you are making that mistake. But the cost of an expensive hobby like this has a significant impact on other discretionary purchases we might make. Our feeling is that we only live once and we should support each other in the things that make us happy. Simple, but very important.
By the way, I will not post a picture of her or let you know how to get in touch with her. I plan to keep her for as long as both of us have on this planet.