Going Postal.
From what I gather, reading your reply, you think:
A. I should be happy I got half of what I ordered, when the system said it was all in stock.
B. It shouldn't bother me that I had to call my order in because even though my order came to less then the Gift Certificate I had to enter before I even got to the "Payment" step, the system wouldn't process the order without a credit card being entered.
C. I should gladly accept that I've not gotten emails that I was supposed to have gotten.
D. I shouldn't be upset that I've had to call twice to fix the screw-ups, when once should have been enough - remember, I still have to call again to tell them whether I want credit or a check for a refund, because their help didn't seem to know that was her responsibility to offer me the choice - even after I asked.
E. I was a jerk for suggestion that I get half shipping back instead of full shipping back as offered - sorry if I don't feel a full shipping refund is warranted (I'm such a jerk!).
F. I shouldn't be concerned that it seems an abnormal number of these fish are dying withing a few days.
Maybe you should be given a sainthood, but I am human. When I place an order, I expect the order to be complete, be hassle free, and be a one time contact sort of thing. Not a fiasco that has taken 2 weeks to resolve, and a total of three phone calls on my side of things.
Even if they have been very "nice" in their handling of this, it still seems like a dog and pony show to me at this point...