I got a baby male, it is great, very bold, doesnt pick on my cleanup crew that I can see. DOES eat a ton and get fat, does pick on my baby clowns (still havent found their anemone), does not sleep in the sand anymore (just on it).
I am hoping it doesnt get any more aggressive toward its tankmates. I have no desire to have a tough-guy fish!
good luck with yours, she is a beaut!