Man, I need to read a little more carefully. I was looking at Mike7's occupation and saw Clothing, but failed to register that there was a second line in there saying Designer. I was about to ask how people wore him around.
As Kryptikhan said: it is all about the ride. You made some ill informed decisions and came to a great source for information. You have taken the criticism very well and it seems like you will be making the correct adjustments to ensure the fish are happy. I am pleased to see that you are interested in learning and that no one on here has been blasting you for making mistakes. This hobby is all about learning, and everyone on here has made mistakes they wished they could go back and fix. But that is where most of the learning takes place: trial and error.
Keep up the information gathering and don't be discouraged to hear that your perfect tank probably won't be a successful one due to bioload. You will find out what works for you and then pass the information on to those around you so that they can also learn about reefkeeping.