There probably has been a post about this already but teh search function here always seems to be down. I have had an onyx clownfish in my tank for two months now. I recently got her a "friend" that is considerably smaller in the hopes that they would become "more than friends". Anyway, she's roughing the guy up quite a bit like she'll bite onto him and shake him back and forth..... He is doing that submissive thing where he shakes and she does let up every once in a while. My question is, how long should this "bullying" go on for? Thanks for any help.