hey thanks, $$ is an impotant issue.
i am familiar with your recomended setup, pros and cons.
you are right about the membrane diffusing impurities. i have in fact measured it. in apx two hours of no flow but at full household pressure. the membrane releases enough impurities to increase the tds by 3 ppm (resolution of 1 ppm) in the water flowing to the di unit. a reading of this water during full flow is 1 ppm. the water exiting the di unit does not measurably change over the same elapsed time. so this fact is not an issue i wish to address.
so my current setup is this. ro/di goes into solenoid valve. valve goes into kalk reactor. kalk reactor goes into tank.
yes i wish to add another tank.
so to put two valves between the kalk reactor and the tanks would put full pressure into the kalk reactor. this would cause a leak. hence the pressure regulator.