How long the membrane last depends on a-lot of factors, like your incoming water quality, how often you change your prefilters. If you back flush them or not, ect.
I will tell you on thing i learned the hard way. DO NOT let the membrane dry out, it will destroy it. I moved for a while and shut everything down. Thinking it would be better to drain everything so nothing froze, MISTAKE. I had to get a new membrane. Maybe this is common knowledge, but i sure had to learn the hard way.