I've always been reluctant to express my feelings on this subject, but it is one of the reasons I'm always waffling about joining the club. I've probably spent close to $100 in membership fees and donations over the years, which is not a lot, but I never know where the money goes or what it is being applied to. When I was pres, I tried to get monthly treasury reports, but I think everyone thought it was too formal. So I gave up, quickly realizing that my goals for the club were not consistent with others, which is understandable.
The money should be used for something that benefits the majority of members, is related to the hobby, etc. Christmas parties are fine, but, like other meetings, I'm guessing the host primarily foots the bill along with what others bring to the occasion. I'm not going to offer up any ideas, but I agree with Art about not personally needing any dip solutions. However, if that's what the BOD feels would be a good use of funds, go for it! Make a decision but don't expect to please everyone, because, as Art says, it'll never happen. Of course, elimination of the membership fee is another valid option.
Dave