Nah, John's got it right. This ain't one of those countries where women are free with equal rights as men and all that ****. It's not like America or some great free nation like that. This is the STL.
Hey-on a diff. note. Got a joke (hope these are allowed)
When a man decides to have a BBQ:
The WIFE goes to the store for the beer, beef, and brats.
The WIFE prepares the sides, salads, and preps the meat.
The WIFE chills the beer, opens the bottle, and carries both beer and meats to the husband.
The MAN throws the meat on the grill, sits sipping his beer for a couple hours before bringing the meat in.
After, all this, the WIFE clears the table, does the dishes, and puts away the leftovers. Then the MAN asks, "How did you enjoy your night off?"
Nicole