I agreed, Eileen. I can see that there are gaps between cultures and methology in this hobby,and some aspects of our lives from two different worlds.
I am compelled to tell two stories that happened to me personally.
I have a natural lava rock tide pool that when tide received, some larger fish get trapped. But normally, there were just three or four different groups of tangs and other smaller fish live there. I feed them from time to times.
One day I saw this very large, over 12" naso that was trapped in the three foot tide pool. I have not seen one that big in such shallow water. I tried to feed it and I showed mine maintenance guy the fish.
I went back to see the fish after lunch, before the tide returns and the fish was gone! I ask the maintenance guy and he told me that " it was good eating for lunch".
I was angry but realized that in his world, ocean is the sources of food supply. Eating a naso(mine pet) and having blue carpet anemone salad(in a different incident) is part of their lives.
Man made products had to be brought in and supplies are limited and unpredictable in the vast Pacific Islands. Mine Dad is the same way and it is hard for me to understand him some times. It must be much harder for others from a different parts of world to empathize/agree with some things in their lives.
Just mine experiences
