I also don't think Uronema in a tank is an automatic death sentence to all the inhabitants. As an opportunistic parasite it needs an incentive and opportunity to jump from its normal feeding grounds (detritus and bacteria) to a fish.
First of the fish's immune system needs to be weakened by shipping stress or poor conditions in the tank.
Secondly, Uronema needs an entrypoint, usually a wound, ideally an infected wound.
The reason why so many Chromis and Anthias are affected is that they are small fishes of the outer reefs or reef crown and therefore used to cleaner and more oxygenated water. At the same time they are small and rather low priced fish that are perceived as swarm fish that get along with each other. So they often get "gang packed" or packed in tiny bags with little water and oxygen. As a result they are stressed, weakened and often have wounds from fights.
More valuable fish or those to be known to usually fight with others of their species get usually treated better by being separated at all times.
I wouldn't be at all surprised if you could find Uronema in many reef tanks without any outbreaks or fish losses.
You can eliminate it from fish, but not from live rocks, corals, clams or other inverts that come with a rocky base or a hard shell.