I cannot express to you how much I completely and totally despise ham. It's a sore spot for me, which I will describe to you folks in detail later on tonight, if you'd like.
With that said...I have no problem if ham is the main dish because I am perfectly fine to eat the many other things that will be there. I won't starve at all if there's ham there and a bunch of other stuff (there's always a ton of other food, ya know?). Seriously...no problem if we go with ham.