Pictures of the acros that are fragile? Species matters, but most should be fairly strong. Flow is a big one that can lack leading to thin, weak, long funny looking branching. Some water parameters can cause some of these problems if off base for long periods of time. Pictures would help most, along with tank size and flow.
Monti are defiantly soft and brittle birdsnest are easy to break but only because they are long and thin. They arent really brittle though, most birdsnest should have hard skeletons, not weak or soft branches.