It sounds like a lot of people are spending a lot of money replacing filter cartridges way more often than needed. When the tds increases it in no way indicates your first two stages need to be replaced in most cases. Unless your making a lot of water you DI should last longer than 3 months. There are many thing that affect the TDS coming out of your membrane and there for how fast your DI resin is depleted. Some of those things are, source water TDS, water tempature, water pressure, rejection ratio of your membrane, if you flush your membrane and for how long, if you produce water in small batches at a time and CO2 levels in your water.
I used to get years out of my resin. Recently I started going through them very quickly even though I make substantially less water now. My best guess is the city change to primarily ground water as my CO2 levels are what is using my DI resin up. I verified this by taking a water sample from before my DI cartridge and measuring the PH and got 7.12. Than I airatted the sample and the PH tested at 8.6.
You need to at least test you water before it enters you DI cartridge to get an idea what the problem might be. I have a fairly complex RO/DI with 2 prefilters, 2 carbon blocks, 2 membraines, a booster pump and 2 DI cartridges. So the cost of replacing the prefilter and carbon blocks adds up especially if they are not the problem as in the case of excess CO2.