It is very difficult (virtually impossible) to get the white balance perfect the way you are doing it. It just isn't realistic. Your image is going to be a little blue or a little red and that is life. RAW lets you tweak the image over and over in a fraction of a second until it really is perfect. This is the digital age, you are using a digital camera, ditch the film technology. It is cool to know how to do that stuff just to say you can, but I don't know any professional photographers who actually do use it in real practice.
You may use a black, white, and grey card with the RAW to make finding the perfect settings even easier. That would make sense. Trying to set the white balance in camera just isn't practical. Think of all the shots you might miss while you spend 5 minutes trying to make sure the colors aren't weird.