and I've pretty much sworn against water changes because I've only seen people failing to do it properly.
FWIW, such a wild statement requires some further explanation, IMO, unless by proper you mean no water changes, as you do.
I've seen loads of people who do water changes that I consider optimal, and many that may not be truly optimal but are certainly "proper".
i stopped because the tank is always at 0 nitrates, so why bother
IMO, that rational seems to come from a fish only world of thinking where one might do water changes primarily for nutrient export. IMO, that is not even among the top ten reasons to do water changes in a reef tank. It isn't even a very effective way of reducing nutrients.
I discuss what can be accomplished with respect to nutrients and many other things, as well as why I recommend water changes here:
Water Changes in Reef Aquaria
http://reefkeeping.com/issues/2005-10/rhf/index.php
FWIW, such a wild statement requires some further explanation, IMO, unless by proper you mean no water changes, as you do.
I've seen loads of people who do water changes that I consider optimal, and many that may not be truly optimal but are certainly "proper".
i stopped because the tank is always at 0 nitrates, so why bother
IMO, that rational seems to come from a fish only world of thinking where one might do water changes primarily for nutrient export. IMO, that is not even among the top ten reasons to do water changes in a reef tank. It isn't even a very effective way of reducing nutrients.
I discuss what can be accomplished with respect to nutrients and many other things, as well as why I recommend water changes here:
Water Changes in Reef Aquaria
http://reefkeeping.com/issues/2005-10/rhf/index.php