MP is correct about the male leaving the eggs in the burrow, either to feed or in response to stress, or both. I did see this before, and the male did reappear with the eggs. However, I don't know how common this is. One would think with a 6 to 9 day incubation time, that the male would need a bite now and then. In fact, this is probably why unexperienced males often lose their eggs. The reproductive drive may not be strong enough yet to overcome the drive for food. Just a guess.
A book on jawfish, hmmmm... that would be a labor of love. It wouldn't be for awhile yet, just getting started. In this day and age it would probalby be better (and less expensive) just to put it on the internet. A book on breeding a specific species of fish is seldom a best seller. Although thanks, David, for your marketing efforts.
In my 6 I can't difinatively see differences in head morphology, they are large enough to show this if it is a real difference, maybe is it just apparent during prespawning and spawning times. Hopefully I'll find out. There are differences in total size, may be developmental rather than sexual, and differences in the "plumposity" of the abdomens, which may have more to do with feeding than gonad development. It may be possible to sex them by looking at the "shadow" of the gonad through the abdomenal wall. We did this with neon gobies, the male had a triangular,white gonad while the female had a larger, rounded, and yellowish gonad. Jaw fish are larger, much, and have a denser abdomenal wall so it may be a stretch. May be possible when reproductively active or near to it.
On feeding the larvae, it's possible to do it with rotifers (enriched) and sparsely fed enriched brine shrimp. I think too much new hatch brine shrimp is not good for any marine larval fish but sometimes that's the best that can be done. I use a finly shaved frozen shrimp as soon as the post larvae can take it, and down here I can use sorted wild plankton, which really works well if you can avoid the predators and competators. I think it's also important to add a substrate of sand and rock to the larval tank as soon as the larvae settle.
I forgot about the breeders regristry. That is a good source of information and the jawfish info is very good.
Martin