FWIW, a 29g is going to be alot easier to maintain than a 10g. May wanna consider just going ahead and doing up the larger tank you have for a display and save taht 10g for a QT tank. You will want to start QTing any new fish purchases.
As for the fish store feeding them. If they do not eat when fed, and the fish store tells you anything other than what I just did, question their honesty and knowledge. Don't buy that "he just ate a little while ago" crap. Tell them you'll come back the next day and want to see them eat first.
As for just having one, would probably be okay, but not the happiest fish. They live in large groups in the wild, until the pair off, then it's jus the two until the deed is done, then they congregate again.
I find it hard to believe that all the tank raised and bred cardinals have just "dried up". They are, in my opinion and many others, the easiest of all marine fish to breed. (as far as ornatmental fish in the trade go). My wild caught pair was breeding two weeks after putting them in my tank. And have since spawned 6 times and I have had 3 batches released. (their mouthbrooders). I know it seems like low survivability, must most deaths were either by other fish eating the young, or my own newbie stupidity. Morso the latter of the two.
I love that you are interested in these fish and would hate for you to pick something else. Please read through this information, it's my bangaii breeding log, lot's of nice pictures and information for those interested in keeping Bangaii's.
http://www.reefcentral.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=969634